Grabbit, Wrappit, Zappit

Got stress? Here’s a handy little technique to get control when you’ve got something bothering you. I must warn you that you’re going to need a trusty weapon. I like the index-finger laser pistol as my weapon of choice. I’ve heard that the invisible, shoulder-mounted bazooka works well too. (wink,wink)

1. Grabbit! Snare the bothersome issue in your hands. Hold on tight because some issues are really squirmy.

2. Wrappit! Take the problem and wrap it up really securely so it can’t get loose. You might choose newspaper, plastic wrap or even cement. Choose a wrapping material that you think will contain the problem from here to eternity.

3. Zappit! Now pull out your trusty pocket weapon, toss your securely-wrapped problem in the air, and zap it to smithereens!

This is a great visualisation technique, but I like to actually go through the motions on this one. I envision that the problem I’m grabbing is a little gremlin. I hold him very tightly in my two hands. I wrap him securely in plastic wrap and then throw him in the air like I’m serving a tennis ball with my left hand. I do a quick draw with my right hand and POW, I blast him with my laser-index-finger-pistol. I’ll have to admit I even blow on the end of my finger, before re-holstering.

There you have it, stress control in three easy steps. It makes me smile every time, and I just love zapping my problems!

What to Do When a Lack of Choices Creates Stress

I was speaking to a friend this week who was complaining about feeling rather stressed.  She commented that she felt out of control.  But she quickly went on to say that it wasn’t the “I’m a control freak and I need to be in control of every single detail, kind of thing; it’s something else that I don’t recognise.”  We talked for a while about what was going on in her life; choices narrowing, lack of good options, pressure to do things that she didn’t want to do at a time that didn’t suit her.  She suddenly had an ‘A-ha’ moment and said, “I’m not out-of-control, I’m out-of-choices.”

‘Out of Choices,’ what an absolutely brilliant turn of phrase to describe one of the major creators of stress.  Stress Relief with Cognitus (UK) Ltd. Read more »

What is the Opposite of Stress?

I recently asked my network, ‘What is the Opposite of Stress?’   As you might expect there was a wide variety of answers.   Some folks shared a single word, whilst others shared a scenario.   The answers grouped into several broad categories:

 

1.     Relaxed, Calm and Peaceful

This category received the highest number of votes.  Many people mentioned relaxing on a beach, often accompanied by drinks with paper umbrellas.   I often ask peoStress Relief at www.cognitusuk.comple to visualise serene or peaceful scenes to counteract the pressures of stress.   When we think of ‘peaceful’, we envision a lowered heart rate, a oneness with nature and an absence of tension.  For many people, this nirvana is definitely not in an urban environment.  Read more »

Celebrate the Small Stuff

I’m a firm believer in celebrating.   I celebrate getting through the day without spilling my coffee on my shirt.  I celebrate completing my to-do’s for the week.  I also share celebrations.  My hubby and I celebrate completing a challenging level on a video game, finishing onerous chores or even just Friday.  
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Taking time to enjoy and savour the small things balances out all the boring have-to-do’s and missed opportunities.  It is so easy to get caught up in the necessary administrivia and stress of life that we lose track of small victories.   We tend to focus on achieving big audacious goals and forget that we climb mountains by taking lots of single steps.   Read more »

Ten Personalities of Stress

One of the odd things about stress is that it is different for everyone.  Some of us have it bad and others not at all.  After working with stressed-out professionals for a number of years I’ve identified ten different stress personalities.  Surprisingly, not everyone wants to eliminate stress from their life. Are you shocked?  I was. There are some folks who relish the role of stress in their life.   

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Do you recognise yourself or a friend or co-worker in one of these 10 ‘Stress Personalities’? Read more »

Stress Relief in Just Ten Sounds

Sometimes when we are stressed we go inwards and get stuck in an unproductive whirlwind of thoughts, emotions and feelings.   This was brought home to me recently during a very fraught and hectic commute.   I was due to chair a meeting and my public transportation choices were not co-operating with my aim to arrive on time.  All the signs of stresVisit Cognitus for great stress relief techniquess were there; shallow breathing, racing heart and spiralling thoughts. 

As I paced at the train station, I was comparing all the possible connection options, weighing stairs and time against cost and taxi ranks.   Then I started on a cycle of questions; is it un-professional to be late, would I be forgiven, did it really matter and why hadn’t I started earlier?   

I really needed to “get out of myself” and calm down.   I opted for one of my favourite techniques, Ten Sounds.    This technique is based on stilling the mind, tuning into the world outside yourself and raising your awareness of sound in the world around you.  Read more »

Stress-less Family Fun with Christmas I-Spy

At holiday gatherings it it often hard to keep everyone engaged and interested.  This game is great for all ages and can be played inside and outside the house.  There are several different ways to play this game; collect points for each item you find and at the end of the day the person with the highest total wins or see who can collect the entire list in the shortest time.  Read more »

Stress-Less Christmas Prep

With only two weeks left to Christmas, I’m in a flurry of preparation.  Here are five simple tips that I’ve discovered to help you prepare for a stress-less Christmas season.  These forward planning tips can help to eliminate last minute glitches and get your holiday off to a smooth start.

  1. Have spares on hand.  Just like the Scouts, “be prepared”.   Have extra essentials on hand: batteries, xmas light bulbs, camera memory cards (or film).   Take time to review your holiday gifts an make sure you have the right size batteries on hand.   Check your gaming equipment and stock up on rechargeable batteries.  Ensure you have off-loaded all the pictures in your camera and will be ready to capture those candid holiday moments. Read more »

5 Simple Steps for Reducing Stress

People often ask for the secrets to reducing stress.  You don’t have to sit cross-legged and chant ‘om’ to make a difference in your life.   Simple changes can produce BIG results. Practicing these 5 simple steps for thirty days will build new habits which support a “stress-less” life.  Read more »